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How to swaddle a baby

Lay the blanket as a diamond, fold the top corner down, place the baby with shoulders on the fold, wrap one side across and tuck, bring the bottom up, then wrap the other side across. Firm across the chest, loose around the hips and legs so they can bend and move. Always place a swaddled baby on their back, and stop swaddling entirely as soon as they show any sign of rolling.

Step by step

  1. Set up. Spread a thin square blanket as a diamond on a flat surface and fold the top corner down about 15cm.
  2. Position. Lay the baby face-up with their shoulders just below the fold, head clear of the fabric.
  3. First side. Hold their right arm gently down at their side, bring that side of the blanket across their body and tuck it under their back on the far side.
  4. Bottom. Fold the bottom corner up over their feet, leaving room for the legs to bend up and out at the hips.
  5. Second side. Hold their left arm down, bring the last corner across the body and tuck it underneath.
  6. Check. You should fit two or three fingers between the blanket and their chest. The hips and knees should still be able to move freely.

The two safety rules

The rest of the rules

Why it's worth learning properly

A good swaddle dampens the startle reflex, which is one of the most common reasons a newborn wakes seconds after being put down. It takes about five minutes to learn and pays off nightly for a couple of months. Practise it during the day on a calm baby, not at 2am on a screaming one.

Quick answers

How tight is too tight?

Two to three fingers should slide between the blanket and the baby's chest. If you can't, it's too tight.

When exactly do I stop?

At the first sign of rolling — often around two to four months. Guidance is consistent that you don't wait for confirmation.

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If you want the whole picture in one place

This page is one moment. Arron's guide Things I Wish I Knew Before You Were Born walks the full first year for dads — twelve stages, 59 pages, written by a dad who'd been through it. It isn't medical advice and it doesn't replace your midwife or GP.

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